Readers can kill me here, but since the Colorado Batman
movie shootings, deaths and injuries have occurred I have seen so many experts
and non-experts on television and read many posts and articles online that say
the man responsible, James Eagan Holmes, is acting insane on purpose.
Mental illness in this country is never, ever delved into
enough, explored enough or explained enough so the lay person or someone who
doesn’t suffer from any mental disorders can understand it. And at age 24, Holmes
is at the right age for paranoid schizophrenia to appear. This mental health
disorder often presents itself around this age—the college age, what is
supposed to be one of the best part of our lives.
Surprisingly, on ABC’s The
View, I was astonished that both Whoopi Goldberg and Joy Behar said after
watching Holmes in his first court appearance
that he was “faking it.” Then my favorite, Elisabeth Hasselback announced there
may be a possibility of mental illness but we all have to think about what he
(Holmes) did and should the punishment fit the crime.
Seeing It in Real Life
I have friends who gave birth to a son many, many years ago.
He was super smart, handsome and had the world going his way. Unfortunately, he
developed paranoid schizophrenia in his college years and after that he was
indeed scary, loved guns, didn’t trust anyone and the man who was a joyful man
became a trouble man who unfortunately committed suicide after being arrested
for DWI when in fact, there was no alcohol or drugs in his body (other than a new
drug his psychiatrist gave him that very day) so hence, it was more than likely
the new drug was the reason for his driving dilemma and his mental health condition the reason for his suicide.
If you don’t know anyone with a mental health disorder—even a
panic disorder or depression—or you say you don’t, you are lying pure and
simple. That’s because you choose to personally ignore that person in your
family or that close friend you used to keep in touch with before mental
illness took control of their lives.
The Brain
Of all the organs in our body, scientists know the least
about the brain. Sure, they have a great start on developing medications to
control certain ailments but not all. And, because the mental health system is
so awful in our country, the really, really sick, often go untreated.
I remember the day the shootings happened and I, as many
others, watched the news in horror. How could this be? Who would do such a
thing to all those innocent folks out for a midnight movie?
One of the first things I did hear that day was when the
suspect’s mother was contacted, she informed authorities, “Yes, you have the
right man.” That alone tells me his own family and mother knew of his mental
illness and perhaps they tried the best they could but could find no solution
that was affordable to help him.
Look at Andrea Yates who drowned all of her children. While
first found guilty, she was subsequently ruled insane and will most likely
spend the rest of her days in a mental health care facility. And, if it’s
revealed Mr. Holmes has a mental disorder from looking at family history, his
actions over the years, talks with people who knew him and especially his
family, he too should spend the rest of his life in a mental health facility
and not a prison.
We’d Like to Help But…
More than not those who need mental health care can’t afford
it or their insurance only covers so much and then they are kicked out of
treatment programs; this was especially true for Andrea Yates—her insurance ran
out.
Most cities and towns do offer mental health care for free
but I for one can tell you if you call for free help in Austin, you have to
wait six months to get in—SIX MONTHS!
And, mental health care, like all health care is a business
so that means if your insurance can’t pay, they won’t treat you—you’re out, don’t
let the door kick you in the ass on the way out and hope you don’t kill anyone.
If our country spent as much on research for mental health
as it does on Viagra and other ED medications, perhaps we’d make a little
progress here.
For now, we’ll await the verdict on whether or not Mr.
Holmes is insane or suffers from a severe mental health problem and to those on
television and reporting the news, shut up about mental health unless you know
what you’re talking about. Lawyers, TV anchors and talk show hosts are not
psychiatrists!
Finally, for those who think family doctors are happy to
prescribe mental health drugs—they aren’t and most won’t. That means a wait for
those who have no insurance coverage and during that poor wait, a mind can
descend very quickly into a bottomless pit of nothing—fantasies—anger—and death.


Thank you for your views. You know? Someone told me that 20th century America will go down in the journals as a culture that raised family dysfunctionality to an absolute art form. I think almost everyone of us could benefit from the services of experienced therapists (paid for by health coverage for the benefit of a mentally healthy America?).
ReplyDeleteMy generation grew up with mixed messages (speak "double standards"), lack of adequate information and an abundance of mis-information. It's a wonder any of us turned out well at all and is due primarily to self-help efforts at mental health in spite of the big business controlled cultural myths and denial. Denial is such an established part of our culture that we tend to believe it is "normal."
I want to say, with my 65 years of life, that it was often bikers, Viet-Nam vets, convicted felons, homeless people, hermits, artists and people that my mother warned me about that showed me kindness, validated me, helped me, pointed me in the right direction and made a difference in my life at times where it really counted.
We can only deal with the state of our collective mental health issues if we are willing to deal with our own and then offer help without judgement and prejudice from our human hearts, which have been so abused by the modern feudal lords of our system, and each begin to accept personal responsibility for the quality of our personal "humaness" and health.
Personal sovereignty demands personal responsibility. Collective responsibility demands a lot of personally responsible people. And is it possible that most of us are better people than we think?
I agree with you Kelton on the folks that aided you during your formative years...often those with experience and compassion are our wisest leaders.
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Good points and an excellent counterpoint to all the "insane" things being published in the mainstream media. Thanks for adding some sanity to a sad subject.
ReplyDeleteIt is truly a horrible thing that happened. I just wish folks who aren't experienced in mental health would leave their opinions to themselves and let the professionals make a decision!
ReplyDeleteMental health care is disappearing because often the people who need it don't get it. Nobody asks to have MH issues but when they do they can't afford treatment. Private insurance companies balk at covering MH treatment without excessive copays. I work in a drug treatment facility and the private insurances are great at the acrobatics that get them out of paying. At least Obamacare will mandate that companies provide real coverage for MH issues.
ReplyDeleteWouldn't that be awesome if Obamacare could cover those who really need help. The largest part of the mental health challenge in this country is helping the public understand mental health conditions ar treatable!
ReplyDeleteMental illness is such a tragedy on so many levels. We hear that there is more acceptance of it and how a person who has a challenge manages it, it simply is not so. There is still a hugh stigma attached to someone who opening admits of such a thing no matter the severity of the condition. The fact that health in this area is at risk truly saddens me. With out proper help we will more such tragedies as you've mentioned. Susan Cooper from LI/BHB
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